Lessons Learned from Ms. Gwen by Beth Dusin

Gwen Phillips, or Miss Gwen as my kids know her, is a great favorite at our house, as I know she is with many other families. When our kids were little, they were big fans of Miss Gwen’s version of Tooty Ta. So much so that we bought the Dr. Jean CD so we could dance around with our elbows back more than just once a year.

With her engaging personality and warm hospitality, Gwen makes most of what she does with and for us at 2BC look pretty easy. Having served with her for many years now, I can tell you that her leadership and work is both expert and experienced.

At her heart, Gwen is a teacher. And she is always teaching. Whether it is by example or with words, her lessons have been so valuable to our family and to our Second Baptist family.

When I was a young mom, Gwen taught me the value of paying attention to the littlest people. Gwen always, always called my kids by name. She knew them and cared about them individually. I still hear Gwen’s voice in my ear when I say that a baby is a “little wad of dough.” And it makes my mama heart so happy when she still calls my high school senior “Nickelodeon.”

In my work as a school counselor, I often remember Gwen’s lesson about telling parents what they need to hear, not just what would be easiest to hear. When one of my kids was struggling, she listened to my concerns and then shared wisdom from her experience. She challenged and encouraged me help my kid learn how to advocate for himself and get along with someone who annoys him, rather than change the situation so the skills weren’t needed.

I’ve been in lots of VBS meetings with Gwen over the last ten years. Gwen’s leadership example has reminded me to plan thoughtfully, listen carefully and build consensus gracefully. And never to forget the ways a chocolate treat improves meetings and morale.

Last but not least, I’ve learned how fortune I am, and my family is, to know and love Gwen Phillips.